Wednesday, 19 February 2014

I need more and I need it now

Settling for less than u  truly deserve. ..

What d hell is wrong with us women treating these men like they kings and in return  being treated like humble foot servants. .. Most women don't require much a little  maintenance here n there... u like pretty hair and nails seeing women on point at all times why not chipping in once in a while. .

   You like to be fed like an arab king the finest of fine food sleep on more than 500 thread counts... what the hell u think these things just pop up outta d sky n into ur plates and on your beds.. I heard a lady commentating the other day and she made the point that women should stop spoiling men and leading them to believe that their asses should be spoilt. ..
  Men should be treated with the utmost respect at all times especially when they are pulling their weight and being truly dominant. .. These men who want to be spoilt without  bringing anything to the table should be thrown in the garbage like ten day old chinese food. We women need to assert ourselves and put our requirements on the table and if he cant live up he should leave us to find someone we can work with and be truly successful with.
   Women need to stop stringing along on the hope that these men will realise their place and love them the way they deserve to be loved. ...  u cant change the stripes on a zebra so stop trying to change these half grown... no place knowing... aint going nowhere...looking ass men.

Tuesday, 18 February 2014

My love

Encountering true love is something most persons experience once in all their lives if at all but Im truly privileged that early in my years I experienced a love that I truly believe that as long as I live I will never be able to compare with anything else. ...
   I met the gentleman at a point in my life when I was becoming a woman and I needed someone to love me n to validate my sense of being and he did this and did this well. ... he made me feel like the type of woman that could conquer the world, that could take on any task and master it and he also made believe that I was nothing but the most special gift that God had given him.
   By helping me to become the woman I am today I was able to love him the way I fear no one else in my life will ever be loved again I was able to not only give up my heart but my entirety to him simply because I knew I loved him and he truly loved me. Sometimes for reasons beyond our control and reasons we foolishly create we ruin love , we walk away from love, we walk away from persons who love us walk, away from situations that have filled our life with utter joy to find other joy...We walk into uncertainty that can only be certain when we make a concerted effort to walk....

Not all that glittere is gold. ...
I loved you... I love you...

Sunday, 16 February 2014

U nuh ready fi dis yet bwoy

Im looking and noticing that now adays men have a major problem with identifying and staying in their lanes... Ive been getting a whole lot a you've changed and you're unhappy and you're getting boring simply because ive decided that im not gonna be entertaining certain arguments any more or im not gonna laugh at lame jokes or talk when I dont want to any more... ill be your friend ill talk to u but im putting way more effort into some of these relationships than I seem to be getting out of them...
   Im not looking for much just a genuine hello once in a while... what is genuine u may ask...one that is not followed by a statement about what u want to do to my body or what youd like to do to me... im getting older n with my age seems to come all this renewed sense of self and identity... im sure of who I am.. what I want and who I want.
    Too often women think they have to fit into the ideals of what their male friends want simply to fit in or to be looked up to by these men... im saying stop that bull whats wrong with you... whats wrong with your personality why u have to taylor it and sexualise yourself to fit into the ideals of some so called friend. .. a friend that has probably never ever bought u a rose, given u a piece a chocolate or treated u the way u know that as a woman u deserve to be treated... ladies take this from me... im young I may be foolish but ive come to learn one thing... women that demand and stand up what they really want are never ever treated less than they deserve. ..

Thursday, 13 February 2014

Rude pickney

Todeh I was called into my superior's office because apparently they had gotten reports that I had sent some children from my classroom. .. instead of calling me n asking me what took place the chairman of the board n the gentleman had the students write letters of complaints which was to be placed on my file. ... It seems the good lord spoke and they called me. .. I sat there. .. listening as the three young liad, feisty,  waan bathe lil gal dem said all manner of evils n eventually proved their own stories false. .. At the end I got up without a word n left... vindicated n feeling upset....
   You might ask urselves upset but why... yes mi did vex till if u cut mi nuh blood nuh leff in nah mi body. ...
1. I was upset because the superior in question did not ask mi my view before jumping to conclusions...
2. How pickney suh blasted lie... imagine dem gals skull mi class den waan tell lie pan mi....
The blinking devil a tell mi Fi  hate dem. ..nuh mark dem paper etc... But u know what... I'm just gonna ignore them because nothing drives an attention seeker crazy like no attention.    After all there are a couple other young ladies in my class that need my attention n guidance. ...

Tuesday, 4 February 2014

double standards

      If I don't kiss your butt I can't get what I want. In the world of work  my ability to suck up or lack there of should not dictate whether I get promoted or not. My personal choice to not sleep with you, to not have you feel me up, to not have you constantly breathing down my gullet should not and I repeat not affect my moving up in the company to which I have been employed.
     I wonder do I blast my my boss if he tries this or do I accept it as a normal part of the work environment. Employers  are known as the ones with the power, does that then mean that whatever they dish out their employees have to accept, apparently some persons are under this impression and they don't know how to say no when they are propositioned. Employees  need to learn to stand up and not use their bodies are bargaining pieces. Yes it is good to make a little extra money to have a little power ,but, at what expense?
   Before we make certain decisions lets think of the consequences of the actions we make...
Are we willing to have someone have a hold over our heads because we are afraid that they may release our secret and cause us public embarrassment.

Employees stop the foolishness... run weh d ole cunnu munnu bosses with the bad attitude and behaviour