Tuesday, 19 August 2014

When the wrong one loves you right

When the wrong one loves you and loves you damn right its a helluva thing. sometimes when you love  the person who makes you genuinely happy has so many flaws you're tempted to question your sanity,  but when you look beyond the many flaws,the little things that peeve you you will find the most beautiful of beautiful souls that causes you to think " Could this wrong one be my right one?"

Sometimes we set so many rules and have so many expectations for ourselves when it comes to relationships  that we forget to  ensure that we are happy. Many persons are under the misconception  that it takes a lot of money to be happy, a big house  and many cars. Although these things  do aid in happiness  trust me security is good , they are nothing if you are unhappy. Just imagine yourself with all the money you need and no one to spend it with , a big house and all you have are the walls to talk to, a nice car and no one to drive in the passenger seat and talk to you... all you have is  your material possessions.

Once in a while its good to pray and step out on a limb leaving it all up to God, move out in faith trust  in the father and be guided by happiness. No one will ever love you more than the person who knows that your a prize  and there is no way except by the grace of God and earnest prayer that they could have gotten you. Have you ever looked at a beautiful woman who is in love with a man who to us is not so kind on the eyes and thought "why tho?"   or seen an educated well off man choose a simple bush girl who is  uneducated and to us way below his level and thought "why tho?" I've deduced that the persons who we think are wrong just know how to love us right.

Often times its not what we want that's good for us or even what we  need and although  sometimes we may think we are settling when we choose someone without the necessary security ( right now) we need to look at the broader  picture : does this person make me happy? , do they put my needs ahead of there own? , do we have the same religious beliefs? , is there scope for the other person to grow?, are they willing to grow and change and better them self for the both of you . If the  answers to these questions are yes them maybe your wrong one is the  right one.

Love can be a confusing thing and I must admit a horribly wonderful thing but when you find someone who loves you and makes you feel like no other whether they are what you expected or not and you love you right back don't ever ever ever let them pass you by cuz when the wrong one loves you right you may just have found the perfect kinda love....

Sunday, 10 August 2014

Liar Liar pants on fire

Lying although necessary at times (for example when your baby asks you what sex is, or your boss asks you a question that is directly related to your keeping your job) it has become a plague in the society and now a days people go around telling so many lies that  they have come to believe them as truths.

Why have we come to this though..  Is it that we as a people have become so superficial that we need to be lied  to and therefore people lie or is it that we are so evil  and genuinely wicked that we lie for no reason at all.

Now I have been looking at men in our society and they lie about anything.  They lie about the  food they eat, the jobs they have, where they go they even lie about things that they don't need to lie about.  Why unnuh stay Suh yow...  Don't it d Bible seh clear as hell that your sins will find you out.  If u have two Oman n a profess fi one dem ago know..  If u tell u wife u deh a point 'a ' n end up a point 'b'  she ago know...  Especially  if the  matey get pregnant,  there is no need to lie.  Either you tell the truth n be a good man or move on n be able to do all you n need to do without hurting anyone.

Now women I hear you  in my head saying 'yes man ole wicked dem'  but you are all just as guilty, who lie more than Oman?  I live n see them on a daily basis n sadly I have to interact with them.  I wonder to myself why women tell lies to themselves, the men they date and there families knowing most times the sad repercussions of there  actions,  the some times beheading, the accidental pregnancy n then distribution of the jacket.  Why can't we be satisfied as we are n know when to behave our Tiny little bodies.

Yes for both  men n women it is sometimes necessary to spill a little lie here n there, to use your male/female charm but when you see yourself telling more lies than truths or believing the lies that you have told then you  know you  have a problem.

Stop this lieing madness be honest n truthful to yourselves n let the good peace that God would wish for you reign. 

Sunday, 3 August 2014

Summer Rules cuz unnuh a loooooo

Its summer and Im loving the break..... Ive gone a couple places so far and seen a lot of people and as Im an avid people watcher I must for the most part congratulate folks this summer, however as there are  28 days left I have noticed some trends  that must stop... by God and his big right hand I have been appointed to lay down the rest of  summer rules.....

Rule 1
Though shalt not wear short shorts if you have any of the following:
* chronic bang belly
* persistent blackening of the posterior region
* feet that resemble those of a newly born calf

Rule 2
Your weave should not be of such cheapness that when you sweat  the colour runs and messes up your nice outfit.

Rule 3
Ladies and Gentlemen
when you go out to party do not and I repeat do not get white girl wasted. know how you get to the venue, know what you do there and know how you get back home.

Rule 4
Do not spend all of the school fee and accessories money on parties remember that while August is fun time September is school time.

Rule 5
Do not wear high heels to parties.... take pictures in the heels, walk into the party in the heels then excuse yourself to the bathroom or locate the back of the biggest vehicle and put on your dancing shoes (corns are not attractive)

Rule 6
In this day and age he/she may look attractive but find out the gender of the person you are interested in before you start bumping and grinding, this world has become a very confusing place.

Rule 7
Do not leave home without adequate planing, know where the venue is located (let someone not attending know just in case) know how you are getting back home, booming a ride is not an acceptable.

Rule 8
If you have no reason to be walking around in the nearest town everyday STAY HOME heat stroke is real people.

Rule 9
Do not  become a statistic.... If your big enough to do it your big enough to buy it.

Rule 10
women remember that times are hard and the men may not have as much money as they once did so keep the spending at a minimum (stop shame the man dem an order Hennessy when all the man can buy is a Smirnoff) ease the man dem a one and two time and help out with the bill a one and two time.

Take heed people and continue to have a lovely summer....

Don't say that to me .......

Is it me? Am I going crazy or has getting older removed every smidgen of  a sensor that the younger me had?
Now of late I've noticed that tolerance to things that I consider foolishness has waned and I have become increasingly short with persons who I think should know better but however for some reason (some reason beyond what I think is my rational thinking)  continue to uphold slackness and do foolish things.

Persons need to realize that although they have the right to free speech persons also have the moral right to defend themselves against anything they consider offensive with whatever force they consider necessary. We need to remember that as we get older people change and persons around them should acknowledge and move accordingly. I am sure that  some of the people who knew our prime minister when she was younger and perhaps even changed her diaper would want to say certain things to her but they have noted her change and have acted accordingly. We are all equal to her and I would like if my change is acknowledged.

Now the other day I am at home minding my own business lounging on my sofa (after all it is summer what else is there to do)and I get a  message that I consider to be very rude and presumptuous now I proceed to tongue lash the individual upon which they reply that I have become  a mere shell of myself a reflection of someone else entirely and I should link them up when I can run a joke. what a individual bright ehhhhh Jesus.

When is it ok for persons to consider you a stagnant unchanging in what is expected  and be able to say any and everything to you expecting you to take it with a a smile and never ever point out the folly of their ways? NEVER

Now I am not saying that persons should not be able to say things to you in jester and to run a one and two joke but there are those individuals who constantly expect to say whatever they want , whenever they want and to whomever the want without feeling that their words will or should be met with an equal or even sharper response.

The good book says to do unto others as you would have them do unto you so my new thing is... if someone says something rude to me obviously they would like a rude response so hear have it, run with it, buss the bag and gobble it dung and duh nuh mek non spill.

If every day you accept bulla you will never be upgraded to spiced bun..... Toni Mcleary