Sunday, 22 June 2014

Wifey material

I don't know if its me or if  its the men that I come across or my friends  come across but the men today have really gone nuts. These  men are seeming confused as to the qualities of a good woman and often let them slip through there hands to settle with some jing bangs. I heard the story recently of a couple who was married for around twenty five years and then all of a sudden the man  took upon himself an unemployed tattooed woman who cursed, smoked and drank and left his good , nice, decent wife at home. If its something in the water let me know because this madness does not amuse me.

Gentleman I'm about to lay on you a couple of signs that will help you to identify if you have a good woman.
You have a good woman if:
1. when she is upset she tells you exactly what is on her mind and doesn't beat around the bush. A woman who speaks her mind and doesn't hold  the hurt and aggression in has mastered the number one rule of relationships which is to always communicate with your partner. A woman who says nothing no matter what is happening  is the woman who will poison you, burn up your clothes and stab you in your sleep.

2. When you go out with a woman, although it is expected that the man picks up the tab;  you have found  a good woman if once in a while she volunteers( because she volunteers doesn't mean your to accept) to pick up the tab, Now a woman who volunteers to help with payments no matter how small will be a true ride or die, she will ensure that you have money in your pocket and that the bills are paid.

3. She  isn't content to have in her home only the things that a man can provide. That is a good woman, she will always be working and hustling to ensure that she has what she wants and your pocket will be less strained.

4. She puts the  needs of her partner before her own and ensure that he is well taken care of and when that matter is dealt with that woman will take care of herself. Women are by nature nurturers and will definitely go out of their way to ensure that others are happy and comfortable around them. This woman is a keeper and as a man you should try and keep her needs on the foreground in as much as she tries to ensure that your needs are taken care of.

5.  If your mother  thinks the world of the woman and isn't always complaining of some shortcoming then you have a keeper, for some reason men doubt their  mothers and often think that their mothers are trying to keep them as babies when they warn them about the thots that they are about to wife. Mothers are able to look beyond the facade that potential partners put up because they are around longer and some were actually thots themselves so they are able to spot and warn you about these women.

The bible itself says that when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing, ,many men haven't found wives they have found side pieces, bad bitches and therefore they will be forever unhappy and doubt the existence of good women. There are women in the world today who just want someone to love and take care of, to treat like they are the only ones on the planet that matter but men if you keep pushing the good ones away you will never ever receive the treatment that you truly deserve. When you find a good woman treat her good, love her and respect her and she will give you the world.