Remember to bask

When a man looks at you and tell you that he is happy all your previous relationships failed those are fighting words right... but when you hear them in the right context in the right mood they rival the feeling of being fucked long dick style on a piece a backas with one foot in the air... the sweetest thing you could ever imagine.

Now I get it some of you might say what an awful man but when a man expresses the fact that he is happy to have you however crude the manner it makes a ton of difference to the relationship and it shoud be appreciated.  Some men you could a swim the longest ocean for, roll round inna macka bush, clean cook and wash and you  never hear them hint at any form of appreciation for you so come on be grateful.

Now what do you do in return do you think dear God this is the end of all things good, him realize him have me so this is about to crash and burn or do you stick to doing what caused him to proffer this statement and add a couple things to keep it juicey? Do you worry that lawd Jesus now him ago expect me to be wife extra ordinary and him nuh drop on no ring (dun dun duuuunnnn)  bahind man! so many cons go with a simple compliment right.

BUT  you know what so many women forget to do. We forget to bask in the moment and say thank you. We get so caught up in the side eye trying to figure  out what this man did that he has to be complimenting you  that you just forget yo bask. Its also a plus if you can drop in a compliment of your own... Not.because the man give you one but because you genuinely want to .. afterall relationships are give and take.

We hear all the time that closed doors is the way God goes about renewing and blessing our lives... sometimes it takes a man in a crude way with a heavenly smile to get us to remember and to bask.

Thought...
When backas a drop foot muss raise... Namaste

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